Hello, dear readers, and welcome!
Today I have a bit special of a post, a sort of life update and reflection. You may recall that recently I did a post for Purple Day, as part of my "Young Author" series. Purple Day is an Epilepsy awareness day, and in the post I talked a little bit about Epilepsy and my life.
So, before I go further, a little more background information...
I have horrible headaches day in and day out, non-stop, with a variety of other symptoms such as sensitivity to lights and sounds, dizziness, etc, which makes it hard to function, let alone get out of bed. It has been many, many years since I was last to the neurologist, and I honestly didn't remember the diagnosis I was given, because I was young. Through a complicated mess of miscommunication and years, my family and I were under the impression that these headaches were caused by seizures. But, as my symptoms were worsening, we decided to go back to the doctor to find out exactly what was going on, and what had possibly changed.
Many months later, I finally was able to go and see my neurologist again. And after tests, I was given a real answer. I won't go into the details, but basically I have a type of debilitating chronic migraine, which really does make sense. At first I was very confused, because this is the opposite of what my family remembered from my last visit, but also glad to have some closure.
So, it turns out that I don't have Epilepsy -- when I honestly thought that I did. I hate to seem like a fake, because that was never my intention, but it was really all miscommunication and confusion. But to be honest, I'm very glad that I thought I did have Epilepsy, because I was able to learn a lot about it, and to better understand people who do have Epilepsy.
It's a real disorder, and deserves attention. I have several friends who do suffer from Epilepsy, and now I can better relate to and help them when they are having problems. I feel more empowered now that I have more information. And though I don't have Epilepsy, I understand what it's like to have a debilitating medical issue, which means that I can relate even further, especially now that I understand my own issues a bit better.
Also, this reminds me that we are all human, and we all have our own personal problems to deal with, and that we should all try and see through another's eyes, in order to be able to aid others when they are in need.
Hello, dear readers, and welcome!
As you're running through life, I have a question to ask you: do you have what it takes to succeed?
Now, before you answer, let me tell you a short little story.
Recently, my sister graduated from her first tier of college (she's going on to get a further degree). Now, this is a celebration for anyone, and an accomplishment, but let me tell you a little about where she has come from. A few years ago, she did not have her high school courses completed, did not have her diploma, did not have a college degree, and was working in a job that she was good at, but did not want to spend the rest of her life in. She wanted to do more, and we encouraged her to, and she made the decision that she would. Many trials and hardships were in her way: finding money to pay for her courses, finding a new job, many problems with the paperwork at the college, and her own sense of fear that she couldn't do it. But she kept pushing forward through every trial, kept going even when it seemed impossible, worked many long hours both at her job and at school, and now she is achieving her dream, and we are extremely proud of her! She's one of the top in her class, and has done amazingly.
Most of us come to the world with bright eyes, shining hopes, and big dreams -- and the world immediately takes it upon itself to crush those hopes, dreams, and put dullness in our gazes. But does that mean that we should give up, that we cannot succeed? No, certainly not.
The saying that "if you work hard, you will succeed" is definitely true -- but we have to work hard. Nothing good comes easily. I have seen countless people overcome and achieve their dreams, but only after years of hard work, and pressing on through whatever circumstances arise to try and defeat them.
Whatever dream you have, examine your options. How can you begin taking steps towards achieving your vision? Even if you have to take one tiny step at a time, do it, because those steps add up. And the next time you feel like you don't have what it takes, remember that you do, so long as you don't give up.
The world needs your bright, shining dream, and you can achieve it. It may not happen as seemingly instantaneously as your connection to the internet, but it is worth the time and investment, and baby steps are actually the best thing for you. The more you work towards your dream, the more you learn about it -- so that when you finally reach a plateau, you are well equipped to unleash your vision.
Remember: you do have what it takes.
Now get out there, and start changing your dreams into actions.
Hello, dear readers, and welcome!
Today I want to talk a little bit about ideas -- story ideas, namely.
I believe that most authors are people who have many ideas, whether "many" to you is 10 or 1,500 (and believe me, as someone who knows an author of 1,500 or more ideas, I much prefer the 10). We all want to pen good stories, and pay attention to these wonderful ideas...but what do we do when we have too many to count? Is there possibly enough room or time for all of them?
The most truthful answer I can bring is this: no.
There isn't enough time for everything.
So then, how do we decide which ideas are worth our time, or are "worthy", as a recent interview I read with Julia Cameron (author of The Artist's Way) said. If you're like me, it's very difficult to divorce ideas, but it is also necessary. For me, these three tips have helped immensely:
1: Make a List - Write out your ideas in a notebook or Pages file, so they are all in one place, and you can manage them. (I also recommend printing them if they're in a Word/Pages doc., so that they feel real and intimate.)
2. Order Your List - Once you make a list, then add some numbers. Figure out which ideas are your favorite, and which are your least favorite. Don't be afraid to rank your stories, and be as honest with yourself as you can be.
3. Cut or Merge Ideas - Once your list is complete, you will need to either cut some ideas (your least favorite, things you don't think you have time for, etc.), or merge those ideas with other ideas on the list. Then, write up a new list. I recommend keeping 10 ideas at one time.
You will need to do with at least a few times a year -- and don't throw away any of your lists, even if you decide you "don't" want to write those stories! Stories have a way of coming back to us, and you may find that what you thought you wanted to write drifts away from your interest. Keep your ideas so that years from now, you can look over them, and be inspired anew (I have a file folder of them sitting on my bookshelf).
Funny, tricky things happen in writing. Your ideas may run away from you - and then they may come back. Recently, this has happened to me several times. And though it can be a bit daunting, it's good to see an old idea; if it comes back, don't shun your old idea. Often, old ideas that keep revisiting are very close to our hearts, and change over time to become something new yet familiar, something we may have needed all along.
Whatever your ideas are, allow them to carry you into creativity. Use your list as a guide, but be open to new - or old! - stories.
Hello, dear readers, and welcome!
Today I am taking a break from my break, and bringing you a new blog post! Taking a break has been a great thing for me, and has really helped me in many ways, but now I'm back for some posting.
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
So, let's talk about "strong" characters, shall we? Please don't groan; I know it's a topic that has been beat until it's dead, and then brought back to life again repeatedly. I know I've talked about it before, but I've been thinking about it--
Mainly because I'm starting to see a shift (thank God!) in books, particularly in YA and MG, which is what I usually read, towards different types of strong characters.
Now, notice I didn't use "strong" this time, but strong. These are two different flavors of strong, two different ideals. And though I am beginning to notice differences in the industry, they are small...but small things lead to big things, and for that I am happy.
So, what is a "strong" character. For many years now it seems like the definition of "strong" has been "grab a weapon, kick butt, take names", and that has never sat well with me, and mainly because that doesn't encompass enough types of people. Am I saying there is anything wrong with this type of character (so long as they have depth; we'll talk about that below)? No. Somebody (unfortunately, depending on how you look at it) has to take up the sword (or bow, or gun, for recent trends) and fight the good fight with fists and physicality. This type of person (or character) is part of the world, and is necessary and needed. But this isn't the only type of strong there is, and literature has taken a while to (re)learn that.
Are there physically strong, combat ready characters that I like? Of course. I really love comics and superheroes (and heroines), I'm a fan of fantasy, I like gothic horror, and I'm a big lover of anime and manga series in most genres. But when I look in the mirror, this "take up arms and get gritty" type of strong definitely isn't what I see -- but I don't see weakness, either.
We read books to explore, to learn, and to reflect. And as much as we love reading about characters we wish we could be, we also love reading about characters like us -- maybe in a better or worse situation, maybe in a different era, maybe more mature than we are, but still people like us. It's been very difficult recently to find anyone "like me" in a book, and that can be frustrating.
Would I love to be able to shoot a bow like Katniss? Sure, but I've never liked her very much (I preferred her in the film, but still -- choose a guy already! You're wasting everyone's time! P.S., authors: I can't stand love triangles). I'd prefer to re-read Pride and Prejudice again, because out of the two, I'm much, much more like Elizabeth. And while I like to be put into another person's shoes, starting a revolution -- which, in this case, is mostly about physical fighting -- isn't really my cup of tea.
Where are the characters who use their minds as their strength? Or, my other favorite, their hearts? Or the characters who willfully work through their struggles, who learn to cope and overcome their disabilities, who take the world and change it by using kindness, or ingenuity, or one smile after the other? What about the characters who can't pick up a bow and shoot, and run, and fight with their fists? How do they make a difference?
One of my favorite films so far this year was Disney's Cinderella -- love it or hate it, but I liked it; I've always been a fan of the fairy tale, though I prefer some versions over others. It had flaws, of course, and there were things I wish they had changed/excluded/included/etc., but overall I enjoyed it. One of the main reasons was that Cinderella wasn't busting out guns and shooting her problems away -- which really wouldn't have worked for her, to be honest. The world tried to take her spirit away, and she didn't let it, even when she thought her dreams would never come true -- and how many of us have been, or are in, that situation? We all know what it's like to feel hopeless, to feel like our desires will never be fulfilled, to want to give up -- and we all want to say no, down deep inside, that fighting to keep our dreams and our true selves alive is important, even if things don't turn out as we want. That's a strength I can get behind as much as I can get behind the superheroes saving the world, because it's another facet of what it means to be strong.
Another favorite of mine will, of course, always be Sherlock Holmes. I go to him whenever I want to be reminded of how important it is to think, and this strength of his -- the power of the mind -- is something we are seeing more of, though of course I wish it were a bit more popular outside of the iconic detective himself.
There are many types of strength, and I think they should be explored, and we as writers are some of the best people to explore them. Stories speak to others, and I think that is one of the most beautiful things about them -- and by getting into the trenches, so to speak, as a writer, we can speak to people even more, rather than just entertaining them.
By slapping on a suit, and giving someone a weapon, the creator does not automatically make them strong, either -- which I think is something that has been forgotten to an extent. One of my favorite examples of this can be found in the first Avengers film, when Captain America, who I definitely consider to be a strong character, both physically, and in will, says to Tony Stark: "Big man in a suit of armor. Take that off, and what are you?" Tony comes back with the supposedly witty line of: "Genius. Playboy. Philanthropist." but Cap drives his point home when he says: "I know guys with none of that worth ten of you...the only thing you really fight for is yourself." Some people argue that Tony's insistence that "everything special about Cap came from a bottle" owns the argument, but I disagree, because we know what Steve always did his best, and had a strong will (inner strength) far before he received the muscles to go with it, and that even when he was unable to physically, he wanted to help others and fight (why he agreed to the serum in the first place). One of the reasons I liked the first Avengers was that we see a turning point in Tony Stark -- he becomes truly strong, more so than before, when he makes the sacrifice; facing the odds and thinking of others made him more than just a man in a suit who was trying to mesh his old self with his new, and showed even more progress in the character.
The "strongest" person is an empty shell without dilemmas, without fears and worries and loves, without humanity. Actually, Iron Man is a great example of that -- take Tony out of the suit, and it is just a suit, just a weapon, but put him inside and it's an extension of a person, someone who fights with right and wrong both outwardly and inwardly, who makes decisions and grows. Whatever we outfit our characters with -- weapons, intelligence, an open heart, a fierce determination to change the world, a quiet kindness, love and sacrifice -- without their humanity, their struggles, they are little more than a machine.
I've seen too many of those characters -- strong physically, or mentally, or otherwise, but with no real sense of conflict, dilemma, change. Their biggest choice may be to say yes or no, may be to choose a romance, may be to take a job -- but what about the bigger issues, the moral dilemmas, the strength of will, the trials, the philosophies? (And, Mr. Hawking, I respect you fully, but it is not dead.) If there isn't depth to your character, then they cannot be truly strong in any form, because there is depth to every human, and in order to reflect our different strengths, there must be depth within characters as well.
And let me be clear: I don't believe that this faulty "strong" character, of whatever flavor they may be, is limited to one type of character, or one gender, or one genre. The physically strong character has been the most popular in recent years, and as a person who is so far removed from that, it irritates me the most, but this isn't the only "strong" character type that has been upsetting. And it isn't only male or female characters who have suffered from this trope -- while people who are disabled, or of a different sexuality, or are religious, or who are somewhere in between, get left out altogether. I spoke before about the disturbing (I feel) trend I have noticed in books where the character is disabled in some way, or has an illness, and then is transported (be it by magic or something else) to another world, and suddenly they are "powerful", and their "problem" is gone -- what a horrible message, that being different makes you "wrong", and you have to lose your disability or illness to be "normal" or "strong", which is the opposite of true! For more on that, see my post: The Importance Of Characters With Disabilities.
Strength can be found in many places, in many forms, and it is beginning to seep (slowly) back into literature, and I am glad. But we as writers hold the possibilities in our hands -- pens, typewriters, keypads, Siri, and keyboards -- and so we should make the most of it, and make change for the better.
What type of strong character would you like to see, and what are some ways different strengths can be implemented?
Welcome to my blog! Here you will find writing tips, inspiration, and more. I post whenever the fancy strikes.